[Tweet “Thinking will not overcome fear, but action will.”]
W. Clement Stone
Last Saturday, I did something that I thought would never happen — I had my first speaking engagement! I was invited by I Dare to Care, a mentoring program for youth and adults, to speak in a paneled discussion on self-esteem and confidence — BE You! Needless to say, I was extremely nervous — I’m far more comfortable ‘writing’ as opposed to ‘speaking’— but I was beyond honored to participate in such an inspirational and motivational event.
I wanted to share this experience with you, so I had my mom video the conference…here’s a snippet of the event (with a random closeup of my dad….don’t ask why lol.)
Wow! That is exciting! I bet you were real nervous. Anyways, it’s all good experience. 🙂
lol yes! I’ve never been so nervous!
Mrs. Pam had me rolling. I love how elegant your speaking is. It’s not very common nowadays. So many public speakers try to energize and excite, but you have such a calming way of conveying a message. All of you did a great job! But seriously, I hope to see you go on to continue this mentoring and speaking about self esteem. Personally, when I was younger I would shy away from people trying to get me excited about something I didn’t believe. Listening to how sincerely you spoke of your personal experience will really help pull the shy folk out of their shell.
Aww thank you! That means a lot to hear! I’m not going to lie, I REALLLY didn’t want to even do the event, because I so scared! But I’m glad I was able to push past the fear, and use my voice to be of help to others 🙂
It is so important to always be yourself. Thanks for sharing.
It really is 🙂
Wow! You did an amazing job. I would have loved to have been there 🙂
Thank you so much! It happens every year…if you’re in the area, stop on by!!!
“Nothing will overcome fear, but action will” love that quote
I just had my first speaking engagement the other day so I can totally relate to this post. Congratulations!
Lol yesss! You know! Congrats to you as well!
I too am more comfortable writing than speaking. You did great.
Thanks so much Tara!!
I love the tweet about overcoming fear. I’m always talking with my kids about that and yet I’m learning it myself.
That is quite an interesting panel discussion. I love when it’s informal. It helps everyone to relax and participate.
Great topic too!
Aw thank you! I think it’s something that we’re consistently learning to overcome 🙂
That is awesome !!! I have always been to afraid and do not think I will ever beat that fear. You should be so proud of yourself 🙂
You never know Cynthia! I thought they same thing 😉
Aw well done hun I am truly proud of you for being so motivational you are an inspiration to us all xx
Aww thanks so much Ana!!!
Oh wow that is absolutely amazing – I am so scared of anything like speaking in public, I really admire those who can and do. x
Girl! I was so beyond scared! Thanks so much!
Empowering young ladies is no easy task, and for that I really admire. I’m so glad you took on the challenge and nailed it! I hope you get invited to more talks such as this. These young women need all the guidance that they can get.
Thanks so much Elizabeth! I hope so too!
I remember the first time I had to get up in front of a group of grownup and open my mouth. All those eyes on me – yikes.
It’s so scary! But so rewarding 🙂
Stopped by to show your blog some love!
Thanks Eva!
I LOVE that you had the gumption and courage to stand up in front of everyone and help them with their self confidence! That’s wonderful!
Thanks so much Shannon!!!
What a great experience. I could never speak in front of a group of people. It’s one of my biggest fears. Congrats!
Mine too lol!
Congratulations for a job well done. What a nice experience this is and great event for those who attended.
Thanks much Ron 🙂
Public speaking is always so nerve wracking. I have done it so many times but still feel anxiety and apprehension creep up every single time. But to do it and do it well is one of the greatest feelings. Good job in facing your fears!
Thanks Matilda! Wasn’t easy, but glad I did it!
Great to see young people boosting with confidence and pride. Keep it up!
Thanks Sophie!!!
I’m so happy for your experience, I know you are more confident after this experience. Keep up the good work!
I definitely am!!!
This is truly inspiring, i wish my speaking skills were better, after reading your post i feel a bit more encouraged to do so! now i just need to practice!
Sometimes you’ve just got to push yourself! Those close to me know that I had a major panic attack beforehand, but I’m glad I pushed past the fear.
Amazing experience! I would be so nervous but these are the kind of moment that make you improve yourself
Absolutely right!
I wish I could get over the public speaking fear, but it’s just so far outside my comfort zone. I’m totally impressed with you though!
Aw thanks Liz!
Those are definitely things that the youth need to hear more about. I wasn’t able to watch your full presentation, but I am hope they took something positive away from the eperience.
I hope so too 🙂 Thanks for reading!
Wow, looks like an awesome experience being a part of this event. Congratulations! I am sure this is a first of the many. Keep inspiring!
Thanks so much! It was amazing!
I like your inspiration at the start of this post, “Thinking will not overcome fear…….”. I have never looked at it that way.
How exciting! Congrats to you 🙂 Love your blog!