Confidence also comes from knowing who we are in Christ. When we understand our identity as children of God, it becomes easier to let go of the need for approval from others and to stand firm in who we are.
I recently went through a bad breakup — but not in the way that you think…
It was a relationship that took years to grow and nourish, taking the time to discover all the intricate things making up who we are. It felt like I knew everything there was to love about this person, but then somehow, I found myself questioning whether I ever fully knew this person at all.
This person who once made me feel so much love left me in a season of mystery and confusion.
This person…was me.
I’m a firm believer that there’s a learning lesson in anything. Have you ever worn something, or had to do something, that stretched you outside of your comfort-zone? It’s funny how small things — even fashion — can help you to grow and learn new ways to love and embrace who you are, and where you need to ‘grow’ some more.
Have I told you about that time I ditched a date? That’s a rhetorical — I know I haven’t. In Chapter One, I mentioned that I’m starting to realize how my own insecurities may have contributed to my singleness. This was a real eye-opener for me, and ever since then, I’ve been thinking of all the moment’s I know I let my fears get the best of me. Like that time I left a date hanging at the door of my college homecoming dance. Yeah, that totally happened…and THIS is what happened…
After years of insecurity and low self-esteem, I’m sharing how Bioré Witch Hazel Ultra Deep Cleansing Pore Strips and Toner helped me find my confidence in a new skincare routine.
For the longest time, I’d let negative comments or thoughts hold me back from achieving my dreams. I saw them as true, and they became my weakness. Find out how I’m learning to ‘Bee Strong’ with brands such as Birdiebee!